What it is to grow up

“If you’re truly serious and intelligent then no matter what arises you will bring the discipline of that great commitment. And soon you will find that it’s even more interesting to discipline yourself and overcome things than it is to indulge yourself and have things. It’s the self-overcoming that’s interesting. The rest is bullshit. That’s what it is to grow up.”

Adi Da

Vigilance

“You are not your mind, but you are responsible for its behavior, in the same way that you are not a vicious dog, but if you own a vicious dog, you are responsible for watching it and keeping it from attacking others or responding appropriately if it does attack someone. As you go through your day, notice what the mind is doing. Keep it on a leash. Discipline it by developing discriminating awareness. Often, the mind lies in wait for you to let your guard down. If your mind suddenly rages out of control, just notice it. Like a vicious dog, it’s not who you are. It may feel like you, but it’s not. You must witness it impersonally and see it for what it is, without judgment. This keeps you from beating yourself up when you see what it’s up to.

Judgment obscures your true nature and keeps you from having permanent peace and satisfaction, like a pond that is clogged with trash. If you unclog the pond and tap into life without judgment, you will taste the sweetness of Freedom like spring water from a pristine well, the Truth you have been looking for as long as you can remember.”

 -from Ten Paths to Freedom by James Wood

“For all anxiety and fear,

And pain in boundless quantity,

Their source and wellspring is the mind itself,

As He who spoke the truth declared.

 

Therefore I will take in hand

And well protect this mind of mine.

What use to me are many disciplines,

If I can’t guard and discipline my mind?”

-from The Way of the Bodhisattva by Shantideva, Chapter 5 verses 6 and 18